Lesson, A letter to myself and all my friends who I care,

A letter to myself and all my friends who I care,


This was an real life experience of my internship interview,
On 12 March 2012,
Story start from 7.30pm until 3am.


The first name of the company started with J,
Then name of the boss of this company,
Started with J as well, is an Indian guy.


I am sorry I didn’t shared all the detail of the company here,
Because I am afraid that this blog post may caused to some serious matter or some loyal issue that is more than this.
I wish to share this with u guys privately at here only,
Because I don’t want any friends of mine face the same thing with me in future,
And end up with a black shadow in ur life.




Let start now.


Everything start with a resume me and meikim send to some company,
He is one of them who replied us in email,
And giving us opportunity to promote"” ourselves and convince him to take us for the internship programme.
Everything is fine, until he asked us to add him with Whatapps, line, viber and talkbox.

He started added me at Line, continue with Viber and Talkbox since Saturday 11 march 2012.
We chat like a boss VS students, or sometimes a friend VS friend.
From the way he talked, it seems that he is a very open-minded and friendly person.
He is an emcee and comedies for his company, a charming and shinning star.


He asked me to go interview on Monday evening around 7.30pm,
After his working hours,
As we know,
People who worked in an event company are always busy.

So, I went to his company,
Nearby Bangsar at PJ,
It located at a housing area,
But it is actually an office.

The design of the office,
Definitely impressed me more,
To work for this company.

Around 8pm,
He ask me to walk into his office and we have an official interview based on my resume,
And he is sharing some detail of what I gonna do in the office,
If they accepted me,
And his principle, rules,
Something like this.

And then he invited me for a dinner like what I expected,
Because we had talk abt this in Line before.
He asked me to drop my car at a petrol station,
And he will bring me up with his car,
Since he know well about PJ places.
Well, he has a damn luxury car, 2 doors sport car , Mercedes =_=

Anyway, he bring me for a short car tour around bangsar and damansara
and then I accompanied him for a dinner at a Jerman bar,
He ordered a Jerman beer for me,
We drink and chat from 9 to 11 I guess.
I couldn’t finished the beer since I really don’t like it much.

We chat we laugh and listen to some song,
And he trying to tell me a meaning of a word called KAMASUTRA,
But I really have no idea about it,
And he said it is better for him to show me by image or something from website,
And he send me a link with email,
Which is a picture explaining KAMASUTRA.

The email is about KAMASUTRA,
a picture,
Some sexual position that invented by Indian hindu people.

GOD DAMN IT.

in our conversation,
He also asked me something very weird,
like :
" Did I realized I liked some of my picture at facebook?"
"Erm, didn’t realized yet.."
"i like some of ur photo at facebook ,
and i was on my bed when i was watching ur photo,
guess what am i doing this morning when i was looking at ur facebook photo…? "

I SPEECHLESS, totally SPEECHLESS.

Lastly, i told him,
I really need to go back because my bf is waiting for me.
And I told him, I have a great bf and I not gonna do this kind of thing behind him.

I don’t know if he really respected me or he know he couldn’t get what he want from me at the end,
He bring me back to the petrol station which my car was,
And I acting like I am not drunk,
Telling him I can drive back home by myself.
He leaves, and I was alone in my car,
And I realized I cannot drive at all with this kind of situation,
I cannot see clearly and I know I was drunk.
I slept in the car for hour and finally I try my best to get back home with my stupid google map,
And I am home in 1 hour instead of 30 min without jam in KL highway.



I had called meikim the next day,
And she told me she also faced some sexual harassment with words,
When they having a conversation in whatapps,
He talked about MINISKIRT, SUCK, LOLLIPOP, BIKINI photograph at his swimming pool to her.
And he also had talked about CLUB, DRINK, MINISKIRT, if I want to STAY with him when I get my internship as his housemate, and a lot of hidden meaning words in his sentence.
This guy is CRAZY and he is trying to get advantage from us,
When he see that we are interested to work for him.


And I had tell my father, my brother and my bf abt this story.
They suggested us to report this to our UTAR advisor.
Me and meikim are going to do this as soon as possible.

So people,
I am really not proud to share this kind of experience with u guys,
But I hope that u all can behave well in this kind of situation,
Be urself and dare to said NO in any kind of situation which u are not comfortable with.

Never go an interview alone.
Must keep in mind that all people who work outside in the society maybe harmful to u.

Lastly,
Good luck for all of u for the internship interview and future.
Don’t want to see anyone else,
Who faced such shitty experienced like me.
Please takes good care friends.

外面的世界，
不是鲨鱼就是狮子。

朋友们，
希望你们internship或出来社会打拼的时候，
可以坚持和维持自己original的形象和性格，
不要被外界影响自己正面的思想。

大家，加油。



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